Growing up is a weird notion to wrap your mind around. As you go through life, your perspectives on almost everything will change. How you define success will change as well. Things that you thought were important at the age of 35 will be useless when you're 65. You may not realis e it now, but everything will shift...
At age 4 success is not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is having friends.
At age 17 success is having a drivers license.
At age 20 success is having sex.
At age 35 success is having money.
At age 60 success is having money
At age 70 success is having sex.
At age 80 success is having a drivers license.
At age 90 success is not peeing in your pants.
It all comes full circle, whether you like it or not.